There is that interesting and very random story I'd like to tell and I need some advice here too.

So, a couple of days ago, I went into the city to meet some friends. We wanted to party a bit, because I was about to leave two days later and would be gone for a long time. I was in the a bit early, so I decided to go into the centre to see what was going on there. I am almost 30 years old, I am an introvert, I often have trouble picking up conversation or interacting with people, I am very shy around girls. The biggest secret is, I never had a girlfriend nor sex. So I walked along those crowded streets full of people, everyone ready to party, everyone there with friends. Once again I felt a bit lonely and told myself once again that I don't want this anyways, spending so much money on alcohol, staying awake all night and try to hunt for attention. I went to a popular club in town. At the entrance I was told that the entrance fee is 10 dollars. I didn't want to go to that bar alone and 10 dollars seemed a bit much, so I payed. They had some good life music that evening and fitting to that music style, I was wearing my cowboy hat. I thought, what now? I was standing in the club, it wasn't really busy at that time, barely anyone was dancing. I didn't wanna buy a beer, it was so expensive, so I moved on to buy a beer. Now I was still standing there, with a beer in my hand, no idea what to do. So I did what I always do, move over to the pool tables and pretend that I like watching bad pool sessions. But the music was good, so I started dancing with myself a little. I didn't take long and a drunk woman came by and asked me to sit with her and her friends on the table. I did, I felt awkward and I just wanted to leave. So I asked her to dance with me. Both of us couldn't dance, so it looked funny I guess. After one song we went back to the table, I sipped on my beer, two more guys came in, they seemed to know each other, so I took the opportunity to leave. I went back down to the dancefloor and saw that old couple dancing, they were very good. All of a sudden I saw that beautiful woman with long brown hair and a green dress standing down there alone. I didn't realize her before. I thought about watching some more pool and hold tight onto my beer and next thing I remember is, I was standing next to her asking her if she could dance like that old couple did. She said "no, can you?". I told her that I couldn't and felt awkward again, not knowing what to do, so I asked her to dance. She was pretty drunk, so that turned out to be a funny dance. I noticed straight away that she was pretty touchy and went very close from the beginning, but to be honest, I didn't hesitate to do the same. Usually I am shy as hell in these situations, so I don't know what happened there. In between the dancing, we stopped and had a little chat, which made me anxious, but for some reason, we ended up flirting and she started giving me hints on what she wanted. I had to ask three times till I understood what she meant. At that point we were in good physical contact already so it was just a matter of time and boom, there it was, my first kiss, how random is that? After some more chatting, kissing and trying to understand the hints she was giving me, she made it obvious enough. I told her to finish her drink and we left the bar, heading towards her place. Standing outside, waiting for a taxi we kissed again. When the taxi arrived we both hopped on the backseat and started touching each other in all the places we liked to while the driver must've felt awkward af this time. I am sure he noticed what was going on on his backseat. He dropped us of at her place, we went inside, kissed again and were ready to get naked, but I insisted that we take a shower first, she agreed. I always wanted to do that and now it happened, showering with a beautiful woman. At that point I was way to nervous to enjoy it. We started doing things and before it almost slipped in once, I better put on a condom and off we went. Holy shit. How did that happen? In a matter of 45 min. I was with a woman at her place, having a good time in the shower. I was still nervous but tried to enjoy it as much as I could. We moved over to the bedroom and did everthing you can imagine for you firs time. Did I mention that she was even older than me? There is this saying that you learn sailing on the older ships, I couldn't agree more. After we were done, I realized that she seemed as if she wasn't really drunk anymore. We cuddled naked and had a good chat for the first time. It was wonderful, I loved that evenmore than the part before. After a while we started kissing again and started a second round.

Fast forward, I took her number and the next day, we met again. It started awkward because now we met at her place straight away. So I felt a bit weird first, we sat down, but then I remembered that she always asked me "what do you want?" waiting for me to make a move. So I did, I pulled her closer to me, felt good. We chated for a while longer, kissed a bit and went on to the bedroom. This time it was a bit more chill for me, I was more relaxed than the day before and it was more fun. So we had sex again and layed down afterwards, holding long eye contact, cvuddling, kissing, talking about deeper life topics. I loved it and I still can't believe how random this happened and how absolutely unexpected it was. Now I feel like it couldn't have been any better for a random firs time. I did tell her btw and she didn't want to believe me for a while. I found it amazing how understanding and patient she was. I really liked that.

It got late, I had to get up early the day after, so I told her that I have to leave. We put on our clothes and I called a taxi. While I did that, we were standing there, hugging, started kissing again, started getting more intense again, was good, but I had to leave. Another kiss and a loving bye from both of us and I left. 20 sec later I came back to get my sunglasses I forgot to pick up. She gave them to me, another kiss and a loving bye and off I went.

Now my question.

I am gone for probably a couple months, how do I hold that contact, what can I write, what should I do and not do? How often to text her or should I just let that slide since it happened so quickly that she most likely just wanted some fun and doesn't care anyways?

She said she is looking forward to see me again, but I don't really know what to believe here, especially when it will be months. I guess just take it as a nice experience and move on is the right way here?

I get attached to women way to fast, so I always overthink that a little and feel very lonely the days after I had a good time with women recently.

Any advice, help or whatever is highly welcomed. Thanks for reading my little story.