A lot of advice gets talked about in this sub yet one of, if not the biggest levers you can pull as a man trying to seduce a woman is going to the right location.

I can't stress this enough, location is so incredibly important yet we spend so little time discussing it.

I remember a few years ago listening to a podcast where these girls were describing how they would dance with and makeout with guys they normally wouldn't at EDM concerts. Most of the guys in the comment section were just roasting them calling them undercover sluts. The thing is you can't be so close minded. What they were saying is true. Your environment plays a huge role into affecting your mood, your emotions and even your behavior.

What does that mean for you and me? Well if our goal is to seduce women then obviously it would benifit us to chose a place that has a seductive atmosphere.

I categoriez these seductive places into two buckets 1. High energy places 2. Low energy places

I won't spend so much time with 1. Because that's outside of the locations I like to go. I just know there effective through other men's experiences and cultural osmosis. So think of edm concerts, clubs(certain kinds), festivals, local festivals. Think about the scene in every anime where the MC takes the love intrest to some Japanese festival and she gets all dressed up and they end up kissing at the end of the night. The reason why it's a trope is because it works. The environment encourages romance.

Now, I would like to spend most of my time talking about option 2. Low energy locations.

Low energy places are bars, restaurants, speakeasy's and your home. These aren't the only places, this is just the list I have experience with. Feel free to add to it if you can think of any.

Out of all the places I listed speakeasy's are my absolute favorite and are basically a staple in my game.

Let me describe to you my experience going to my favorite spot to really hammer this whole thing home. To get to this speakeasy you have to enter a secret door that's located in the back of a other wise unassuming bar. This adds a bit of excitement and mystery to your night before you even step foot in there. Once your in you'll immediately notice how dimly lit it is. The lighting is very minimal but cozy, intimate.

It's kinda small only about 20 people can fit. It has an old timey aesthetic which adds to the charm. Byt most importantly, there's a lot of couples in there. Speaking to each other, holding each other and yes making out. This is good! It's not over the top, like some giant orgy. It's just intimate, people feel more relaxed because you feel like your away from the public. What you realize is that everyone is concerned with the person they came with that they don't give two fucks about you. This attitude allows you and your partner to relax.

There's a stool towards the corner end of the bar that I like to have her sit on while I stand. She likes it because it feels like we carved out our own little section just for ourselves. Plus easy access to drinks. From then on its literally smooth sailing all I have to do is not do something dumb and I'm good for the rest of the night.

I hope this example sparks some inspiration within you and you can use this to think about seduction differently. Work smarter not harder.