I need advice here. Like a lot of it. I am fine looking but I get no girls. I have hobbies and will in near future expand them. I go to social gatherings every Friday. The problem is, I feel like I am unwanted for no reason. Or simply most people don't need anything from me. I see the most miserable mfs get girls suddenly and here I am just waiting. I said to myself if I do nothing then nothing happens. But then again I try to do something and nothing changes, people will only say be patient well I got to my limit. I am not doing something right, which is clear. I need a way to make a woman engaged. I watched and heard a lot about getting girls but my problem isn't talking to them. It actually getting them. Currently I don't text with any girl I used to chat with and because I wanted to avoid online-dating. I don't know how to initiate a conversation? Don't know how to slide into their DM, I need help with this and would appreciate it.