My Sexual Desire Is Fading and I Don't Know Why

MensRights-ModTeam · 2025-03-10T19:52:44+00:00

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GreenBasterd69 · 2025-03-10T18:48:15+00:00

Do kegels

shingaladaz · 2025-03-10T18:59:09+00:00

A delightful combination of low testosterone, chronic anxiety and sleep apnea ruined my sexual desire. I fixed all things but the appetite never fully returned.

Professional_Tour608 · 2025-03-10T19:23:02+00:00

Do you have a partner you love? Could be the simple answer many men (myself included) often over look. Maybe your priorities are shifting, and that could be an excellent thing. Sex without love is unsustainable imo, and where we lose our real sense of manhood.

WhereProgressIsMade · 2025-03-10T19:26:48+00:00

It's happened to me over the past few years. I figured it was mostly just due to getting older (46) and stopping my weight lifting due to injury. I thought I'd miss it more but I'm finding it's kind of a relief to do other stuff with the time I used to spend thinking about ways to try to create the right mood with my wife.

thisiskartikpotti · 2025-03-10T18:49:55+00:00

Been through this. Am 43 m for context. DM if you'd like.

alter_furz · 2025-03-10T19:28:52+00:00

If you try to delay your orgasm, it is stronger.
When i rush it, it's just a few twitches. If we take it slow and build up, I have fireworks out my ears and everything.

Consider using no protection but with a birth control coil installed.

Do you get enough sleep?

Consider something like viagra in low doses. No, it's not only for those who can't get it hard. It improves blood flow down there and everything just feels better.

If you pull out often and finish it yourself, the body gets bored like
"what's the point, i could do this all alone"
"all this work and no proper finish deep inside, i'll pass" says the body.

Also it really helps to have a hot partner.

As an extreme measure, consider 2 weeks without sex and without masturbation.

When everything happens 2 weeks later, of course you will not last at all. Let it all happen. Enjoy it. It's fine if you come in 40 seconds, even though many girlies would argue that their pleasure is the most important thing in the universe.

dzikun · 2025-03-10T19:32:27+00:00

How old are you?

Title	My Sexual Desire Is Fading and I Don't Know Why
Author	Lovecatalife
Upvotes	9
Comments	11
Date	March 10, 2025 6:45 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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