I had some male friends, and spent time with them one year ago. But theirs life situation has changed, they had to go to another city, some to another countries. I have now some friends, but they are much older than me, divorced or with failed relationship, and they have theirs problems. I dont meet often with them. I am 30, their are about 50. I really dont want to spend time with them, i prefer to read book or do some programming or watch a movie. Or excercise my mind in mindfulness, what can be better than having no thoughts? Since one year when i learned that, I find it most relaxing activity ever, better than drinking alcohol etc. But i never had success with woman. Is having no man friends, no real masculine friendship a barrier here? Maybe i have to change it even if i dont want it?