Meeting people while going out

liftingnstuff · 2025-03-15T20:48:51+00:00

Find venues that you enjoy with music you like. If you're having fun, starting conversations is easier. Other than that it's just practice until you get more comfortable approaching sober

DaygameCode · 2025-03-16T00:26:29+00:00

It was easy back then because alcohol made your brain ignore your anxieties, ego, and your unresolved emotional traumas.

Now that you are sober, you are more self-conscious and worried about keeping a respectable image in front of others, more doubtful of yourself, second guessing yourself more, being more worried about what others think of you, more scared and aware of negative consequences if you do things wrong, and so on.

This is why people drunk because it’s easier to drink than having to work through all of that which would require studying psychology, or going to therapy or a self-esteem and dating coach like me.

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-03-16T06:52:14+00:00

See my post on nightclubs. That guide is desgined to be done sober

Title	Meeting people while going out
Author	hyhitth
Upvotes	1
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Date	March 15, 2025 8:41 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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