Aloha, need some good tips here, my ex gf came back to the picture after 4 months we didnt talk( i didnt chase, beg or cry) we've been hanging out since like jan 28 now for a whole month she was making plans wanting to be around me all the time, then on feb 28 she went to australia with her friends the first 3 days she was texting how much she misses me and want to be in my arms but then she step back, and i start pushing more i back down on the weekend and when she came back monday she texted me to which i respond excited and that i couldnt wait to see her. Now i start to make plans with her but just got maybes or ill try answers so i pulled back and went back to focus on me, she finally decide to meet for like couple hours thursday but then i try to make plans for friday and she again said maybe, she said her friend from cali is in town and they wanna have some girl time, friday she blackout drunk, i was texting her goodnight messages but i stop also with that. For the whole day yesterday i just focus on my things, went to a sunrise hike, did muay thai in the morning and then roll some jiu jitsu in the afternoon, i was so busy i didnt grab the phone, to my surprise found texts from her wishing me a great day and that she was planing to go to my place after her party and was glad didnt do it cause it would have ruin my day. I told her to come over last night and she said maybe again so i told her figure out your schedule and call me bc maybes are not the type of answers im looking forward to hear. She showed up drunk at my place this morning at 4 am and saying she lost her phone and the only phone and address she remember was mine, she was worried about her friend so we contact her and her friend got already cops looking for her lol, anyways i dropped her friend at her place and drove my ex at hers too, now in the morning we had some casual talk where i said i dont like to be a secret( she takes me to her house but whenever all her friends crew are together i cant go, she says some of her friends are very judgmental so she doesnt want them to ruin this) she feels is too soon to talk to all her friends and family about us again which i agree cause im also testing the waters( but i like her a lot not gonna lie) And then she said she says she is being saying maybe to me cause her friends are here and she doesnt want to make plans that she might cancel later on because she likes to flow with the day( bs for me) . So my question here is Am i acting needy ? Overpursuin her ? And what can i do to get her to chase me again ? I feel like she is being avoiding me? Now when we broke up last year after 2 years together at that moment i was very mentally weak and behaving strong like a nice guy anxious all the time, read the book no more mr nice guy and i build myself up again but this girl can make me go nuts really fast. Any tips brothers will be very appreciate.