My opener for every situation

StrikingImportance39 · 2025-03-18T01:05:34+00:00

Avoid self intro. Because it always sounds like a pitch. Let her ask about u. And only then give answers. If she doesn’t ask anything it means u haven’t reached hook point. So do more emotional spikes.

Do not open when u both wait for the pedestrian signal. That’s because u want her full attention. But she can’t focus on u when she has to focus on crossing the street. Better is to wait for her to cross and then catch her up and open.

“U caught my attention” is a good statement. However, u have to follow it with a spike of emotion. Like. “The way u walk stands out” or “You have vibrant energy”. Etc.

Don’t say “I have no excuse talking to u” because it’s a useless statement.

“Beautiful day today” won’t work on the streets. Because u will appear suspicious. Like u want to sell her something. However, this opener can work in situations where u both were together for some time, like sitting next to each other on the bench.

The “How’s it going “ followed by situational it’s fine when u are waiting in line. However, the problem is that u go straight away to interview mode. Why do u care if she comes here often? So it’s suspicious. Don’t go into interview mode without hook point. Just spike her emotions until u reach it. For example, “I bet u are from Germany” if she asks why “Idk, u seem like someone who is used to wait in lines”.

In a gym “do u come here often” it’s fine but u need to know how to transition.

Dog openers actually are fine. In fact if she has a dog and u don’t even mention it when opening would seem weird, like u don’t like dogs. But u have to be more playful rather go into interview mode. I like to say hello to the dog by extending my hand like “Hi, my name is John, what’s yours” . If the dog extends his palm then u just continue talking with him like he is a person. “Sorry I didn’t catch that”. Etc. if the dog doesn’t extend palm, then u switch to the owner and say “I see. Well, I will try with the owner” then give your hand to her and say “Hi am John, what’s your name?” When she says her name, then look at the dog and say “This is how u greet people.” Then pause. And say “I feel like I am talking with a dog”.

In grocery. I think it’s fine to ask about food etc. but u need to know how to transition.

“Do u think your dog would approve of me saying hi to u”. It’s not a best. U should not need to seek for approvals to say hi from anyone. It may work, but it does show your mindset. Better not to use it. Just approach normally and comment something about the dog.

Yoga class is fine. “Do u come here often” it’s fine. But u need know how to spike it up.

Girl at park is fine.

When she walks opposite direction try to catch her eye contact. But don’t open her at that moment. Because u will appear like people who asks for money or give flyers. Instead, let her pass, and then catch her up with fast pace and turn around in front of her but leave more distance to let her to make couple of steps. There are a lot of videos how to do it properly.

Don’t say “u look cute, actually”. Instead, give more direct and strong compliment. Basically u literally run after her. So u need to have a really good excuse of doing that.

“Hi. It’s kinda random. But I was just walking pass u and had to tell u that….” U have to finish this with very specific thing about her. U can’t use generic compliment. It will look fake. And the thing about her must stand out. Also compliment must not sound cheesy but sincere.

For example, she had colourful dress, coat etc.

“I had to tell u that the way u look reminds me of summer”.

If her hair stands out like she is red head

“I had to tell u that your hair is on fire”

If she has a suit

“I had to tell u that whatever u are going, for work or interview, u will nail it”

Etc.

To be fair these direct openers really spikes emotions on the spot. But they dissipate quickly. So u still have to do the work otherwise even if u get the number they will flake.

My opener for every situation

At a Crosswalk (Waiting for Signal)

In Line for Something

Climbing Gym

When She Has a Dog

Grocery Store

Hot Yoga After Class

Girl at Park on Grass

Walking in Opposite Direction

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Title	My opener for every situation
Author	Quin2020
Upvotes	28
Comments	5
Date	March 18, 2025 12:56 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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