How do I accurately calculate my SMV, RMV?

leosandlattes · 2025-03-30T15:01:13+00:00

It’s difficult to put an exact number on things. Like with anything else, some of this is subjective person to person. One man’s 5 can be another man’s 7, though the gaps and variation usually aren’t too far off from each other.

There are some near-universals that will always help you like being a healthy weight, having clear skin, developing a sense of style that flatters your body, being a good flirt, and having a soft and positive demeanor.

What might help you better is to think about the kind of man you want, and then what kinds of traits he might desire in a woman. Make it goal oriented. Because there are factors that can help or hurt your SMV and RMV depending on what kind of man you’re looking for.

For example, I’m a high income woman and this positively impacts my RMV for a certain demographic of men who are looking for upward family economic mobility, but hurts my RMV for men who think career women are detrimental to family formation. I’m also Asian with a cutesy, girlish style so this can positively or negatively impact my SMV based on the man in question.

So think about the man you want and ask yourself whether you meet his standards, and that will help you better than a trying to place a number on your SMV and RMV. If you don’t meet his standards, whose standards do you meet? The average of the men who approach you should be regarded as your current level, so to speak.

Nerdslayer2 · 2025-03-30T14:50:12+00:00

Are you trying to calculate a number or determine what caliber of man you are capable of attracting for a serious relationship? I guess those two are related, but there isn't really a consensus on what different numbers mean. I think it is more useful to deal with percentiles, but people are less used to that.

LyriWinters · 2025-03-30T19:08:46+00:00

RMV: Basically what you can match with on tinder and go on a date with minus 2-3.
If you can match with 9s but not 10s you're a 6-7, if you're wondering why this obviously dsnt work if you're an 8-10 - it's because if you were you wouldnt really need to ask this question.

SMV: What you can match with on tinder and have a date.

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Title	How do I accurately calculate my SMV, RMV?
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