If you have lurked around their communities for long enough, you know how bad this is for them. They essentially have to pay the price for what Muslim men in Afghanistan or a very small percentage of Muslim men in the U.S are doing. The Muslim women living in the western countries are often times more misandrist and they use the injustice that none of them ever face living in the U.S as an excuse to be shitty towards men. And a lot of us who are not Muslim do not realize how bad many Muslim men living in the west have it. The majority of Muslim women in the U.S (especially those who lived their whole lives here) freely work and are very well earning individuals. But they still hold on the traditions of the man providing for everything from Muslim cultures but also want all the freedom that the U.S gives them. Majority of them do legal marriages in the U.S where they have the right to divorce, they have the right to work and make their own decisions, they can go out whenever they want without their husbands permission, but they still want their whole lifestyle fully funded for by their husband. And in the U.S the issue of polygamy is nearly non existent in reality among the Muslims. They can't be forced to have sex with their husbands and can legally charge them with rape. They can wear what they want and no one will beat them up for not wearing "proper clothing". The internal issues they face in the west are very similar to what the men face growing up before they go on to live their own individual lives. Yet they still want all the traditional benefits of Muslim culture that is specifically for them, such as mehr (dowry), full provider husband, a house, a car etc. But almost none of them want the part of the traditions that benefit the men. High mehr (dowry), is extremely common among Muslims and I have seen ones that go up to a million dollars.
I have been lurking in Sunni (most popular sect) Muslims' mosques and in the past 2 years I have done it regularly in different mosques, there has only 3 instances of the sermon including men's rights in Islam. Where as the has been 63 instances of the sermon including men's rights in Islam, 42 of which were the whole topic of the sermon. Perhaps the best thing about going there was the food they gave me which helped me saved quite a bit. It is absolutely insane that there are no organizations coming forward to talk about this. The amount of Muslim men suffering in the west for the crimes they didn't commit and are just sucking it all up because men from their culture are "oppressive to women" upsets me deeply because it is not so different from those of us who are paying for the crimes we never committed and are just told to suck up to all the misandry and inequality that men face because "men were historically oppressive to women", even though we as individuals never had anything to do with them.
I see some Muslim men talking about it but they are always turning hard redpill because they have no good safe space to talk about their issues as their own women will shame them and call them misogynistic in*els which may turn them to actually becoming a woman hating in*el.
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