This is not my first post, this is a second account I am using as people I know, know of my other account.

I train in martial arts, in my class there is a girl my age (18), tonight came with a number of surprises and I am unsure as to how to follow.

I'll sum it up.

  • Being comfortable around each other contact wise was made naturally as we were put stretching together tonight.

  • I teased her playfully during these stretches, I made a play saying she was submissive, she shrugged and said while looking me dead in the eyes and said "submissive's good".

  • Later while still stretching I was still teasing her, she retorted and I said "What are you gonna do about it", this was met with "yell male".

After which I pulled a face and she replied with, "what, you dont think I know feminism's bullshit? They cry for equality but really it's for power"

As the conversation progressed she explained allot of RP truths on views with feminism.

She also made the comment of "aah, friendly rivalry", I replied "oh were not friends" with a grin, could of been better but eh, I was off my game tonight, her beliefs and views threw me off. I find it quite interesting she has that insight, what are your guys opinions on it?

  • Is it considered a green flag that she has these views? (Im aware, AWALT)
  • Do you guys think it would minimise power play/manipulation naturally by her? (She's quite a good girl, respectful, slightly shy demeanour but cheery)

I became aware my voice goes higher around her, I'm definitely not stoic around her, she maintained eye contact with me throughout close training and I was always the first to laugh, grin or smile.

My question is where do I go from here, how do I pursue, what could I have done better?

  • Is the fact she is stoic considered a good thing/bad?