Well first I'm in need of advice. Recently my wife's mental problems are taking a tool on me but that's not the point. What I'm asking is advice or thoughts on if divorcing is going to ruine me. Right now we are barely able to get by Financially, I work she doesn't. We have two kids but one of them will be turning 18 in a few weeks. The house we own is In my name but if sold maybe break even, but cheaper than renting. I have no other assets other than 401k but less than 3 years of being first started. We have been married for 18 years in the state of Michigan. I can't even file for divorce even if I wanted too.