Never been to a club since I wasnt old enough, thinking of going to one soon and talking to some girls. To my knowledge cold approaching in a club isnt the same as cold approaching elsewhere, you have less time to say what you intend to say with the girl before you ask for her socials. Thats why I was wondering what are some safe lines that could be used no matter the situation in a club? Heres what I have so far:
“Hey how you doing”
Response
“I saw you from over there and thought you looked stunning” (compliment a piece of jewellery maybe? Please let me know if thats a good idea)
Response
“I wanna get your snap if thats cool with you” (or number, I just go for the snap since a lot of girls my age use that)
As shes typing her socials
Question 1: “How are you enjoying the night so far?” (I think this could be phrased better so that it takes more than just a “good” to respond to but I havent figured out how to do that)
Question 2: Or maybe compliment a piece of jewellery here rather than above like I mentioned and ask questions about it such as: “love your necklace whered you get it?”
Response to question 1
Or
If I go with the jewellery method and she says she bought it herself I say
“You got good taste it matches the fit well”
If she says she got it from someone else
“They know you well it looks good on you”
By this time they’ll probably be done typing in their socials so I end off with
“Alright cool ill text later”
Im 18 and I will most likely only be approaching girls around my age or a bit older. Id appreciate if the responses and methods of cold approaching are through the lens of an 18 year old. Thank you for any help please let me know if Im making this more complicated than it has to be, I just want a few lines that are versatile since Im not that experienced yet.
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