I made tentative plans with a Tinder date to do something today, but she stopped responding once I tried to nail down the details. I've got another plate that I'll probably hang out with instead, so I'm tempted to text the first girl to tell her since she didn't respond I made plans with another girl. But this comes at a crossroads for two contradictory rules I've built over the last few months. The first is obviously the whole preselection thing, but I've also noticed that dates don't like to hear about other girls currently in your life.

In all likelihood, I'll just go radio silent and hit her up again in a week, but it seems like there might be a better alternative.

Thoughts?