I am confused and I think this is the right place to ask. I want to hear your advices and if you have been in similar place.
Preface, in short notes. I'm gifted with great looks. Before age of 22 I was natural. Banged hotties left and right. At age of 23 I started my own business and failed and left in debts that made me move to a country with better opportunities in order to repay them. There I started a relationship of three years with a girl. We broke when I was 25.
This serious of events left me broken. I don't know why. It just did. From happy and natural guy at 22 I becomed fucked up in all ways at 25. In job, socially, inside me, like, everything. I was close to giving up.
That's the time I discovered this sub. Helped me a lot. I did great things since then. Excelled at my job, got a raise, learned new language, traveled, got ripped. I was and now I am truly happy person.
One thing was lacking..women and social network. I got some ons here and there but I thought I can do better then it.
I built great social network. I moved to international hub in Germany where I'm meeting interesting people from all over the world. My social life is sparkling. I have so many invitations and gatherings that I actually can't come to half of them. And I'm very welcomed to most of them.
But still, women. So I worked on being relaxed and more open to women, and I get results. I have amazing dates. This Friday I went out with banker from New York. She lives here. Saturday, I went with girl from Kiev I met not so long ago. Today I was in company of three pretty Eastern European girls. My dates are good looking and are definitely not the bottom of social or any other barrel.
Most important, I learned how to spend time with and around women. I have no problems sitting with one or more of them for hours and having great time.
I was being told, that they haven't met many guys who are so relaxed in presence of women and who are able to convey conversation for hours without any awkward moments. They called me pretty, manly, honored to be with me, and so on. Mind you, I'm not talking just about college girls, I'm talking about taking great looking women to top social locations. And woman with choices.
I don't orbit these women, I'm not anybody's tampon or similar shit. Nor they get anything from me. Actually they pay me drinks sometimes. I spent genuinely good time with them and they obviously respect me. For example today I sat with three girls for few hours and when I speak they listen even if I interrupt. When I speak they don't interrupt. I have lot of attention from women I hang out with. And respect.
However, you guess the problem.
Close. I can't close.
Regardless of the fact that many of these women are very suggestive (eye contact, touching, clumsy and nervous around me etc(like being alone with me is not suggesting enough)) I just can't create escalating situation.
I need to take a step forward. I built a social circle, check. Learned to communicate with women, check. Built a network of dates and girls who introduce me to other girls, check. Next step, I should close with some of them.
So, my question is: how to crown great progress I've made by closing?
For example, I feel they tease me sometimes and I know I should do it also, but I never get idea how. I'm the best looking, smart, and socially adept guy, who doesn't get laid as he should.
What do you advise here? Where to go from here?
Thanks
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