I've been seeing this girl for 3 months, then she seemingly lost interest and disappeared. This week she texted me and we made plans to hang out on Friday with a sleepover at my place. The date happpens. We have sex.
It's 2:30am. She starts texting frequently and then says that she might have to go home because her neighbour texted her that her dogs were barking. She goes into this story about how her landlord came in and how she already got 2 eviction notices and if she gets the third one she's going to get kicked out. I kinda nod through the story and stay solemn. I picked her up and drove her to my place so I get up to get dressed because I already know that this is some bullshit story and I'm going to have to drive her. She asks me what I'm doing tomorrow and I say, "I'm busy." She notices my mood change and pouts. She walks over to me and tries to hug and kiss me and says she doesn't want me to be mad at her but I just push her away. I ask her to pack her things. She made plans with me for the night and now she's breaking them and it's super disrespectful. There is maybe 5% chance of the existence of this mysterious neighbour who's texting her when her dogs are barking.
We get to the elevator and she asks me to carry her bag. I say, "No." She says that I am a fucking douchebag. I don't respond. Once inside the car, I'm silent. She says, "Wow, thanks for the awkward and silent ride home!" Another 5 minutes of driving and she asks me what she can do to make me believe her. I say, "Show me text from the neighbour." She says she deleted it as soon as she got it because she needed the room. I cannot restrain myself and laugh. I say, "A true player would be able to come up with a way better lie than that." She loses her shit and asks me how my relationship with my ex was. "Did your ex lie to you all the time? Is that why you are so paranoid? You are sooo wrong right now. Blah blah blah" I say, "Don't try to turn it around on me." She keeps going on about my paranoia. I say, "Okay, if that's the way you want to do it..." and keep driving.
A few minutes of silence later I say, "I don't really care what you do tonight as long as you're honest about it. Breaking plans with me like that is something I can't stand for despite how much I like you and I will have to let you go." She insists that she's going to get evicted and that it's all in my head and I'm paranoid and wrong and this bickering goes on for a bit until we get to her place. Before she gets out I ask, "Any last words?" She says, "Fuck you." I laugh and say, "Well, you always knew how to make me laugh! Goodbye then". She leaves.
Half an hour later she texts with "I really like you and I'm home alone now just like I said and you're stupid for letting me go because you are paranoid and wrong so I hope you're happy, bye!"
I'm done with her, but how does TRP handle lies like this? When she breaks plans like this in the middle of the night, should I call her out on it? Or just realized that she's a waste of time because she doesn't respect me? Should I have asked her to be honest about where she was actually going? On the one hand, she's not my girlfriend and she can do whatever she wants. On the other hand, she made plans with me and I worked hard to set up our date at my place. Then she ruins it by abruptly leaving in the middle of the night.
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