I’m Tom, going through a divorce, trying to sort custody for my 5 year old and finances with my ex. Court’s not an option too pricey (£15k+) and bad for our kid. I’m exploring family mediation to work out parenting plans and splitting our house savings. How did you make it work? I’ve heard about MIAMs, but what’s the deal like, what do you bring or expect? My ex and I aren’t enemies, but pushes hard sometimes, so I’m worried about keeping things fair. Any tips for prepping or staying cool when it gets tense? I’m also looking at online mediation since I’m knackered from work. Did mediation help you avoid court or save cash? I’d love to hear what worked for you guys, especially with kids involved. Found a site, http://www.mediateuk.co.uk, that talks about fixed fee mediation, which seems cheaper than solicitors. Anyone used them or got advice on mediators? I just want a fair deal that keeps my daughter happy.