It’s been a hell of a month. Feels like I’m living in slow motion. I (30M) married to my wife of 3 years (33F) and in that time I’ve gone from someone who was responsible and well off with active savings to having no savings and almost losing my job due to her antics. Today I woke up and realized that this entire process is so much to handle I can’t imagine if I also had kids and they were caught up in this. Not bragging I know many people are dealing with that and you have my sincerest apologies and respect - just glad we waited on that now that were bankrupt and divorcing.