So, you are frustrated.

You walk down the street and you see all this beautiful girls.

Maybe they are with their friends, maybe with a boyfriend, maybe by themselves.

You can’t stop yourself from looking at them, you know you want to meet them but you can’t find the will within yourself to go and talk to them.

I’m (not) sorry to bring this up to you, but if you are not willing to go against your resistance you will keep feeling frustrated, forever.

Not only that, your resentment against yourself will keep growing stronger and stronger the more you hesitate.

Inaction brings regret, regret brings frustration, frustration brings self-hatred.

You keep telling yourself that you will do it when you are ready, when you gain 10 extra pounds of muscle, when you make 1000$ extra per month, when you finish that pick up course you bought.

Except for every milestone you eventually reach the goal post moves further and you never feel ready to go for what you truly desire.

No one is coming to save you, no one will knock at your door handing you that 10 you dream about.

It’s time you change your perspective, it’s time you stop reacting to things outside your control like your height or your upbringing and that you start taking control of what you can change.

Your attitude and proactivity are in this category, thankfully for you, and you can change them in a split second, you only have to decide it.

You said you want to date beautiful girls, you said you want sexual abundance.

Prove it.

Test your resolve.

Show the universe that you fucking mean it and go for it.

Show him that a rejection or a bit of approach anxiety are not enough to stop you, show him that you won’t crumble under pressure.

Take responsibility for your goals, dreams and needs.

Be the hero of your story, not a side character.