I noticed there is a lot of confusion after dates, regarding how well you "performed." Actually, most of the suffering is caused by the inability to just relax and "not-know" the outcome of the situation. So I just pulled the list from my post "how attraction works" to help you get a clear picture of what your date thinks of you.

How To Use:

  • Score based on her perception of you, not who you actually are
  • Be intuitive when tallying, if it feels like a yes, then it's a yes.
  • It only reflects what she thinks of you at a moment in time

If you have any of the following (-2) from your score:

  1. Neediness
  2. Desperation
  3. Creepiness
  4. Attachment and treating her like a queen
  5. Meekness
  6. Shyness
  7. Fear
  8. Insecurity
  9. Lack of balls
  10. Sexual vulgarity (talking about sex, her tits or ass)
  11. Making her feel like a slut
  12. Fakeness and being gamey
  13. Bragging
  14. Boring logical conversations
  15. Forcing her to lead
  16. Trying to impress her
  17. Being ungroomed, bad hygeine, no style

If you have any of the following (+1) to your score:

  1. Leadership
  2. Confidence
  3. Assertiveness
  4. Strength
  5. Entitlement
  6. Humour
  7. Detachment, your life mission is more important than the girl
  8. Adventure
  9. Good sex developed on deep intimacy
  10. Charisma
  11. Masculine Energy
  12. Charm
  13. Cocky and Funny
  14. Witty
  15. Fun
  16. Romance
  17. Being highly social
  18. Positivity, Optimism
  19. Playfullness
  20. Emotional variation, emotional rollercoaster
  21. Passionate (for life)
  22. Strong personality (no shame for expression, no meekness)
  23. Decisiveness
  24. Vulnerability
  25. Deep intimacy
  26. Authenticity
  27. Boldness
  28. Competence
  29. Pre Selected
  30. Status
  31. Good reputation
  32. Strong eye contact
  33. Clean and well groomed

If your score is below 0:
This situation is not recoverable. In her mind you're already in the trashbin.

If your score is between 0 ~ 14:
You're in the friendzone. This is great if you've havent displayed man to woman (intent) yet, because you can slowly increase your score via social circle (see my post on that). But if you've displayed M2W, then you're also in the trashbin.

If your score is between 15 ~ 19:
You should be a solid contender in her orbit. She would willingly engage with you 1 on 1 with texting and "test out the waters." IOIs come from this zone but don't push for commitments. Just flirt and "be cool" until you get to 20.

If your score is above 20:
She is ready to come out on a date with you or be isolated. From my experience, around 28 is when she will be ready to come home with you (the pull).

I'd say don't rely on this tool so much since any rigid tool like this tends to be unreliable. Use your intuition. It's helpful only when you feel confused or lack the experience to make your own judgement calls.

Cheers,
FriendlyWrenChilling.