Please wake up. Open your eyes. Society will always treat you like a doormat. Not by mistake, by design. The judiciary system isn’t broken in their eyes. It reflects exactly how they see you. You are not misunderstood. You are undervalued, by default.

It’s not just cultural. It’s biological. In the logic of survival, one man can impregnate a hundred women. That makes men, structurally, disposable. The loss of a man doesn’t threaten the continuation of the species. That instinct still lives in how society functions. How courts rule. How relationships collapse. But we don't live in a survival society anymore. We are not in the caves anymore.

The pill against this isn’t to fight the system head-on. If you try to prove your worth within it, you will live in misery. If you keep providing, explaining, performing, you will exhaust yourself.

And the children you raise inside that system will end up caught in the same loop. You thought you could show your value and be seen? That your children would treat you differently just because you loved them more consciously? The world doesn’t work like that. Society is stronger. What is worse is that the children you are fighting to love don't love you to begin with. The mother raised them, what did you expect ? They already drank the coolaid. Your sons and daughters will do the same. Because they have NOT been taught otherwise. If you ex was awoke to the system, she would not have taken them away.

Listen to your body. They do, why don't you ? You are tired. Emotionally drained. And that’s not a problem to fix. That’s a signal. A final warning.

So let go.

Don’t show up to work. Let them fire you. Let them write “depression” on your file. Because it is true. Let yourself shut down instead of still feeding a machine that erases you. Let them feel the weight of your absence. Let them taste the welfare. Let the system experience life without the man it quietly leans on while pretending he’s irrelevant.

This isn’t giving up. This is giving back the burden that was never yours alone. You don’t owe your pain to anyone. Stop paying. Let it collapse if it must. You are not here to carry a dying structure on your shoulders.

Instead of paying and still not getting something in return. At least sell your ideology by listening to your body.