The thing is at 5'8 I'm eye level with most of the girls in a bar and that doesn't really work out too well for me. Now when I wear lifts and I'm around 5'10 it really makes a huge difference for me in my confidence and also I feel more average (even though I'm still short in the environment).

I feel like 5'8 is short 5'10 is average and 6' is tall. Anyway height is honestly a big deal breaker. Like a guy could have everything and still do terribly with women because he's short. There are a lot of cases of that.