I have a self-effacing personality. I am tall, muscular, higher than average looks, have high value hobbies, but I don't show it in my perceived personality or interactions with others. I always think and act like other people (betas/low value women) are better than me even though I know I am way better in comparison. I am too modest and play a role of no one special. It greatly hinders my game. I have a hard time escalating and following through on IOI because I don't feel like it was true (untill I later realize that it was and I was just underplaying myself).

What does RP think about this and how can I work to fix this and show my real smv? I read somewhere here that lots of us men downplay our smv and I greatly relate to that. I guess one way is be narrcastic and talk about oneself highly but I feel like it would turn people away and it doesn't come off naturally anyways.

Please discuss

Appreciate