So I just told my wife of nearly 20 years that I want a divorce. It was one of the hardest decisions of my life especially since we have kids and after making this decision I realized it was the right one. Now, I'm still home and things are a little tense. The kids don't know but I can tell one of them is picking up some obvious signs.

I'm scared but oddly excited for what comes next. I want to make sure my kids are ok. I want to make sure I'm ok and honestly I want to make she is ok.

Couple of questions... For those of you who were the primary bread winner to ultimately the sole bread winner, what did alimony and child support look like?

I travel on occasion for work, and due to the nature of my work, my schedule can be a little in consistent. While I work a traditional 9-5 there are times I can be late due to emergency or very early depending on who is in the office. How will this potentially impact custody?

That's all I can think of now. I'm meeting with my attorney soon so I'm sure things will start getting sorted out, but just going through the motions and emotions at this point.