In the very early stages of divorce. Still living home together with our young kids (all under 8yo). We haven’t told them yet and don’t plan to until everything gets closer to finalized and we make our living arrangements, etc. But I am having strong feelings of guilt and betrayal about the kids and keeping this “secret” from them while they just live their lives oblivious to what’s going on. Anyone else feel this way? I know we are protecting them from things at the moment but whenever I think about them not knowing about this ticking time bomb about to blow up their lives it kills me inside. Any ways to cope with this?