Although much to the dismay of the advanced community, the beginners often cite that looks is a common occurance of their demise. The term "looks don't matter as much" I think should be examined more carefully.

I think we can all agree that if you are a couch loving potato chip eating fatass, you will have a more difficult time attracting women.

I will give you some context and my own story. When I started out, I was an Average Fustrated Chump just like you. But over time, as I invested more and more commitment to the process of actually doing it, lo and behold, I started excercising, lifting wieghts, researched some "style" on pintrest and bought clothes to find my authenticity and so on.

The term "looks don't matter" refers to your excuses, not that it actually doesn't matter. It is to encourage you to begin, so that you can just take the first few baby steps.

The reason why after doing about 50 approaches or so will incline a person to start looking better is because they start to understand that confidence is the most important thing to succeed in the cold approaching venture (see my post: how attraction works). By looking nice, you increase your confidence and therefore your results.

I hope this have reduced much misunderstanding. Please stop using this excuse. Personally I've gotten a bit sick of it, and its irritating the shit out of me!!! JUST START DOING YOUR FIRST 50 APPROACHES, and just like magic, you will find that you suddenly enjoy more and more looking into the mirror after some time.

Cheers,
FriendlyWrenChilling.