How do I deal with premature ejaculation?

Gainzzzzfordayz · 2015-11-01T19:48:14+00:00

Check out kegel muscle exercises. You can gain almost absolute control of when you want to cum and it can make orgasms much more intense.

Also, dont be afraid to just switch positions after a minute or two, its not a bad thing and you get a good amount of variety. Additionally, I generally only bang for 15-20 minutes, but its definitely intense rough sex so maybe that counteracts the short duration. However I do believe that most often people do not really fuck for more than 20-30 minutes at a time, i know personally I would just get kinda bored with it by then since it would be essentially just pleasing her.

Do not be afraid to only do what pleases you, this can also be a turn on for the girl.

Linrraba · 2015-11-01T19:17:42+00:00

Something simple to try is jerking off and when youre about to cum you stop it for while then reiniate. I do that to control my lasting. Just dont stranglehold your dick.

johnnywahd · 2015-11-01T19:49:50+00:00

The PC muscle. Get to exercising it.

bakedbean21 · 2015-11-01T22:57:24+00:00

I began writing a comment regarding this but i hit the character limit so Ive wirtten a full guide on how I essentially beat P.E on the main TRP if you wanna check it out

MadChestHairYuKnight · 2015-11-03T09:57:35+00:00

Thanks for the reply everyone. Will be trying things out to see how I can improve my times.

Disleep · 2015-11-01T19:05:56+00:00

I had this problem with my first gf and still happened to me sometimes, very rarely though. I can tell you doing physical activities and having a good shape will improve it (IDK why). If you masturbate you can train yourself by taking your time instead of just watch 30secs porn and come immediately: you will get used to need more time to come, but it's like the gym, if you stop training yourself you will lose all the results easily. During the act you can hurt yourself (I used to bite my tongue or mouth, or my hands, or scratching my backs or whatever) but don't overdo it because you could lose the erection. Of course thinking about somethingelse it's the most common trick, I played drums so sometimes I just started a song in my mind and I imagined me playing it while I was fucking her at rhythm, very funny. For a period of time I did also something like putting a finger between my balls or pulling the scrotum to not let him swing (IDK though how much healthy could this be). Finally the master trick is headbanging. I know it sounds stupid but worked perfectly for me, I could last forever shaking my head for some time. I don't think it's healthy too of course but whatever.

PS most of these are used while doggy style. Infact when a girl wants to ride me, I can't last much even now, I really find attractive the boobs moving all around. PPS don't overthink with this "best sex possible" thing, just don't

Disleep · 2015-11-01T20:20:38+00:00

how could I forgot to say jerk off before going out on a date?

Title	How do I deal with premature ejaculation?
Author	MadChestHairYuKnight
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	November 1, 2015 6:35 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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