Hey, guys! I too happy by found this subreddit, because seduction is a theme that I love! So here is my first question:

I live in a small city and I consider myself a good seductor, but with a problem: I need a reason to make some approach. In big cities that isn't a problem, that's because in big cities, make a mistake or receive neg is not a big problem, simply because you never see that girl again. But in a small city, it sounds different.

I live in a 20.000 people city in west region of a state of Brazil. I don't know is in USA or other country, but here in small cities, everyone knows everyone. So always will have some that know who you want seduce.

I did a break in seduction for 3 years because I was in a relationship and now I consider myself a non-calibrated for cold approach. So my quantity of erros are more than before this 3 years. And living a small city, make much errors sequentially can destroy my reputations with the girls and people in general.

So, how can I have a cold approach with a girl that I seen everyday in the market without destroy my reputation?