Is our sex life unsalvageable or is it just my high body count talking?

MoreThanPurple · 2025-09-19T02:34:18+00:00

OP please check modmail. Locking post due to multiple accounts and repetitive posts.

Wife_and_Mama · 2025-09-19T01:05:19+00:00

My body count is two, including my husband, and I think you're just sexually incompatible.

Plus I’m obese and bipolar and I don’t have a job or a college degree and a bunch of other things are wrong with me and the wall is in two years (I turn 28 in December) so I feel like I can’t leave.

You can't leave a three week relationship because you're fat? Hogwash. I left an abusive marriage when I was morbidly obese and suffering from horrible depression that meant I could barely get out of bed some days. I lost weight, dealt with the mental health issues, learned to dress, do my makeup and hair. I built a career, which you can absolutely do without a degree. I met my husband at 27, married at 29, and will have baby number five at 38.

If you think trapping yourself with someone you don't even like is going to improve your life, you're wrong. Stay single and work on yourself. Lose weight. Get medicated. Find a job that has an opportunity to move up, which you can do at basically any company. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and don't make your life worse with bad sex and a man who doesn't care enough about you to fondle your boobs before sex, because he's "tired."

Ok_Meaning4393 · 2025-09-19T01:11:37+00:00

Sounds like you’re unsatisfied in your sex life and addressed it but he doesn’t care enough to change. Sexual satisfaction is important as well as your partner hearing and wanting to fix something. The thing is you said it’s been 3 weeks to a month?? Cut your losses and just move on. Might be an unpopular opinion but if you have so many things you don’t enjoy cut and move. Why are you stuck to this guy if you aren’t satisfied. Finding your number one is very difficult I agree but don’t hold onto someone because you want to find love. 💗

TheBunk_TB · 2025-09-19T00:59:25+00:00

I commented before.

I think you are trying to find reasons to torpedo things.

AutoModerator · 2025-09-19T00:53:28+00:00

Title: Is our sex life unsalvageable or is it just my high body count talking?

Author Outrageous_Plan9623

Full text: Hi. I (27F) have been dating my boyfriend on and off for about three weeks to a month now.

He has nice eyes and nice facial hair but I can’t help but notice his other unflattering qualities. He barely tongue-kisses me and it feels weird when he does. Most importantly, when he kisses me, I don’t usually feel turned on.

He also doesn’t do any foreplay and when I asked him about it he said that too much foreplay makes him sleepy. I said before here that his dick was small but it’s not true, I just can’t really feel it.

I do cum though but I have to try really hard and I wonder if our sex life on top of everything else (we’ve broken up two times) means we have to break up.

But my body count is 15 so it could just be my high body count talking. Plus I’m obese and bipolar and I don’t have a job or a college degree and a bunch of other things are wrong with me and the wall is in two years (I turn 28 in December) so I feel like I can’t leave.

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Shartacus_of_Rome · 2025-09-19T01:57:26+00:00

Well, it seems like he is not respecting what you are asking for. You may need to sit and talk to him about the foreplay thing. Say you understand it makes him sleepy, and ask if there is a way he can participate in it that does not have that effect.

Title	Is our sex life unsalvageable or is it just my high body count talking?
Author	Outrageous_Plan9623
Upvotes	0
Comments	9
Date	September 19, 2025 12:53 AM UTC (10 months ago)
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