Nun Mode?

Round_Ad4240 · 2025-09-19T03:24:58+00:00

I think you should stop talking every day while you “wait” for him. Cut off his access to you while you level up and he’ll start to feel it.

Jenneapolis · 2025-09-19T14:58:51+00:00

Nun mode would require you to cut contact with him. You really should do this anyway. Right now he is having his cake and eating it too. He gets to date others while getting affection and emotional intimacy from you. If you want any chance of getting back together with him, you have to cut contact.

Simply say to him, "I respect your need to recover and heal from your past relationship and understand we cannot be together right now. Therefore I will give you the distance you requested." Then you have to disengage.

Please watch Coach Lee's videos on youtube. He will explain to you exactly what your ex is thinking as he's staying in contact with you and why your best strategy to get him back is to hold your ground. You are not going to get him back if you keep in contact with him like you are.

AutoModerator · 2025-09-19T02:55:19+00:00

Title: Nun Mode?

Author Choice-Dragonfly4268

Full text: So the reason I want to start nun mode begins with this guy I started seeing 5 months ago. We broke up because he entered a relationship with me too hastily after a previous LTR ended and needed time to recover from that breakup and be single, but we still love each other. We still talk every day and are friends and love each other and flirt to some degree.

He says we may get back together but not to wait for him. Thing is, I can't really help but wait because he's my first love. So I was thinking that while I'm waiting, I might as well level up my life. I have mental health issues, a shit social life (which makes me too reliant on men), a poor diet, and probably don't take care of my appearance as well as I could. I'm not ugly, but I don't live up to my full potential either. So I'm thinking about going nun mode while I wait so I'm not wasting time, and even if it doesn't work out with him, I've made myself better.

Does this sound like a solid idea or am I misguided? Also, how should I go about nun mode. Does it basically just mean "don't date and work on yourself instead"? Or is there something more I'm missing?

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Title	Nun Mode?
Author	Choice-Dragonfly4268
Upvotes	0
Comments	9
Date	September 19, 2025 2:55 AM UTC (10 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/1nks6sj/nun_mode/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWomen/nun-mode.1562323 https://theredarchive.com/post/1562323

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