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Where should I start?

EronV · 2025-10-11T15:59:42+00:00

Hi, good afternoon, everyone! All good? I hope so. Well, I don't really know where to start. I'm 21 years old, going on 22, and I've...

EronV

October 11, 2025

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Title	Where should I start?
Author	EronV
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	October 11, 2025 3:59 PM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1o3z9gq/where_should_i_start/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/where-should-i-start.1563879 https://theredarchive.com/post/1563879

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[–]Far-Plantain-1176 2 points3 points4 points 9 months ago (9 children) | Copy Link

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[–]epimpstyle 0 points1 point2 points 9 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you improve your personality, then you are no longer yourself… you become a new version of you, you’re not really you anymore!

However, there is no need to be PERFECT or maxed out to talk to girls - nobody is perfect ... Trying to be the ‘best version of yourself’ can actually trap you in a loop and you will always have the idea that you’re not good enough and that you constantly need to improve. That’s just an illusion, but if you keep focusing on improvement, you’ll end up stuck in that loop.

Sure, everyone is beautiful in their own way but that's not enough because you need to stay flexible. If you notice certain traits aren’t well-received, don’t cling to them, adjust and swap them out for something that works.

Funny how many theories sound good and perfect, until you actually try them. That’s when reality hits.

[–]ImpossibleBritches 1 point2 points3 points 9 months ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]EronV 0 points1 point2 points 9 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link