Ok so this is something I'm getting better at but I feel I'm going to say the wrong thing at the wrong time eventually. So today I was (still am) sitting on campus and a black girl came and sat beside me to study. Not interested at all, just want to study, don't always have my RP hat on plus she wasn't hot because of racial reasons.

Well anyway, this big black guy with a very receded hair line walks by and it's quite clear he knows her. She mentions how tired she is and slept 3 hours last night. This ...person.. starts saying cheesy shit like "oh well you look beautiful anyway". I mean it was unclear if he was being sarcastic but damn no, just to put it to rest after she says "aw stop it" he says "no seriously, you really are". "I genuinely think you are". Her: "okay Tyrone, get out of here now, let me study. Him: "okay you know I was being serious though right? Her: get out.

Then this idiot walks like 10 steps away before turning around and asking her "hey do you want to come grab XYZ btw?" her answer is a straight remorseless "no, sorry" as he walks away.

It was really hard not to stfu considering I was right there literally and I almost started blabbing and I know I would have my ass handed to me cause this idiot would think it would make the girl happy (which it might, but it doesn't mean she lets him fuck her).

Now this guy did so much wrong. Girls want to date up, not down. Let's be honest, trp aside, we'd all like to have that luxury from a human perspective. Whatever. You going up to a chick and then pedestalizing the shit out of her only shows her how lowly you think of yourself especially if she's not hot. She's going to cringe. Then this idiot says it like 3 more times.

Okay and then he walks like 5-7 steps away and turns around asking her to come to the main school restaurant /bar. First of all, why would you delay it? Second of all why even bother asking and giving her full control of the situation. A simple "let's go to XYZ" or maybe get an assessment of how busy she is before saying it and go from there. She clearly just told you she's studying for a midterm.

I was so close to saying something along the lines of "you can either worship the pussy or you can fuck it" or "you really think she's a vending machine you put nice guy coins into and get sex out of? Not how it works big guy."

Now I know the obvious result if I said that. She would give an eyeroll to me for actually helping a guy out. This guy who I think I can conclude was rather beta would act on his beta instincts and probably beat me up or something to continue trying to impress the girl. This has happened a couple of times now where I almost committed social suicide of sorts.

Question is how the hell did you guys develop the impulse control to shut up when you see a human in dire need of a red pill slap across the face? Does it not boil you on the inside just watching men do this to themselves? To me it was funny almost but I still couldn't help it. Anyway to improve on this?