Female here; I have a few questions for TRP males.

freewanderer · 2014-05-21T03:49:24+00:00

You should probably ask /r/RedPillWomen (link in sidebar).

FrogTrainer · 2014-05-21T03:51:11+00:00

I don't do shit tests

You should.

I'm not saying do the bat shit crazy shit tests that pop up in stories on here every now and then. But do some "fitness prodding" that RP males expect.

lightfire409 · 2014-05-21T04:03:01+00:00

You'd do well over in r/redpillwomen.

You shouldn't try and make yourself look like a special snowflake. Your prerogative shouldn't be to convince us you're a "unicorn". Most of use are skeptical when a chick claims shes "So different from all the other girls."

Onto the traits we look for. Loyalty, submissive nature (First mate to the Commander), respect, usefulness (outside the bedroom.).

One of the tennents of TRP is women respond to the behavior in men. If this guy your seeing is actually red pill, he'll bring out the feminine traits in you. He'll be all you think about, all you'll want to do is please him and take care of him, his word will be your command, that sort of thing. So if you find yourself borderline obsessed with the dude, thats means you're on the right track to a fulfilling relationship.

We also look for a women with a low partner count. Like less than 5.

Piroko · 2014-05-21T03:51:37+00:00

The problem is that everything you've described can be thought of as a building, and a very good building at that... but not the foundation.

Physical attraction is the foundation.

The male perception of attraction to women is fundamentally visual in nature. Men (BPs anyway) will stumble over themselves to placate even the worst tempered woman if she's physically attractive. It may not last, they may come to resent her or themselves, but they'll do it. Because attraction is physical first in men, everything else is frosting.

Basically, I want to get into a relationship with this guy, but I don't know how to approach the situation.

If he hasn't already made a pass, you're probably off his radar physically. There are two things you can do to change this:

A) You can improve yourself and try to come into his field of vision (dressing better, losing some weight, etc).

B) You can approach first, make it clear that you're interested.

However if he hasn't approached, he's likely not going to if nothing changes.

[deleted] · 2014-05-21T03:47:18+00:00

I don't do shit tests

Bullshit. You've certainly done them. If you think you haven't, then you need to read the links in the sidebar and lurk more. Women are inherently programmed to see how far they can push the boundaries before a dominant male puts them back in their place.

Read this thread on shit tests: r/TheRedPill/comments/22no60/shit_tests_are_just_attacks_on_frame/

As for your interest in a relationship with him, be sure that you read everything on this page: http://therationalmale.com/category/love/

Meatclap · 2014-05-21T03:47:46+00:00

That looks like a very general question ISO a very specific answer. Some of it will be a matter of personal tastes no matter who you ask. I know my own tastes, I know what I want, the next fellow may prefer a differing personality, looks, fringes, sexual history, political beliefs, smoking habits, etc. Many have swallowed TRP in accepting that LTR are untenable in today's society because of all of the legal, social, personal, financial, and familial hazards men, and only men, face.

SlickJamesBitch · 2014-05-21T03:53:39+00:00

Shit test it will save you time. And they're fun!

OldMuckyTerrahawk · 2014-05-21T04:17:23+00:00

/r/asktrp

/r/RedPillWomen

[deleted] · 2014-05-21T04:21:04+00:00

The point is not that behaving like a woman is bad - it is OK to shit test, OK to hamster to some minor degree, OK to be the emotional one, etc etc. These things are part of the femininity that men enjoy, it's just when women take it to an extreme its obnoxious.

No one in this day and age I know of is against their SO having a career. In this economy, a woman is contributing to the household is damn useful. Go pursue your career too - forcing a choice between career and relationship is dumb at this stage, because many men are going to be preferring women with careers in the future. Not "career women" who wreck their work-life balance in the favor of work, but women who are passionate about an equitable career. I would hate for you to misunderstand TRP and nuke your own career.

To get a guy with a lot of options himself, he has to believe you are the catch, not himself. This is really the bottom line, when we feel that we have somehow managed to bat above our average, we want to keep that girl. So try to elevate your SMV - women at RPW can help you there, but it's generally stuff like working out, learning more about fashion and makeup, learning how to not be unnecessarily argumentative and also not a doormat, etc.

To me it's as simple as this; there are two types of girls, those who will be hotter next year and those who will be less hot next year. If we have 2 pretty, fun, attractive girls... and one is on the up and up due to the way she treats herself, while the other smokes, drinks, and parties a lot... the former is a way better investment.

[deleted] · 2014-05-21T04:32:27+00:00

how do you guys know when you've found the right woman?

If you don't fuck us right off the bat but can hold our interest long enough for us to stick around and let us take the lead in the relationship.

In so many words, a woman that makes us feel like a man and not a "significant other".

What qualities does a woman worth being in an LTR have?

Marriage potential. If you are putting substantial effort into the man's life...Cooking for him, cleaning his place, giving him a bath, massages, trusting him, showing him physical affection, proving your loyalty, and in general being a warm and friendly human being.

Basically, I want to get into a relationship with this guy-

You don't get to decide that.

If you're game, you'll have to wait until he's game. That's a big part of love, being vulnerable and waiting for the one you love to reciprocate.

If you're not nourishing him physically, mentally, and emotionally, than he won't want more. He has to have an incentive besides your personality and vagina.

If you want it, you have to work for it.

Good luck.

Title	Female here; I have a few questions for TRP males.
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Date	May 21, 2014 3:16 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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