I always knew that I looked young for my age. I was never bad looking - actually decent looking, but just looked like I was a few years behind. After constant rejections (even after developing decent social skills) and improving the way I looked (lifting, new dress etc), and everyone telling me "youthfulness" is not the problem, I was one step way from just giving up.

I'm 30 now. people have ALWAYS told me I look like I am 22-23. cannot grow facial hair. babyface. actually decent looking - but just look too young.

I went out last night with my younger brother (he is 21), and hit up a college party. I came in, dressed well (muscle t-shirt), and notice half the girls in the party eye fucking me. I have NEVER had this happen before. I thought I was in the twilight zone. I had always been hanging around people my age - and I always looked like a baby compared to the guys around me, and the women always went after those guys instead of me.

I looked around this college party at my "competition" - I looked slightly older than them, better dressed, fitter, and more confident. It was at that moment that I suddenly realized - I need to approach girls in their early 20's.

I went from getting barely any action the past 2 years to getting two makeouts, three numbers, and a lay with a 8/10 that night. It was surreal.

How do I go about this without looking like the creepy old guy? I live in a fancier part of town with young professionals. I feel odd traveling over to the college town and being that "old guy".

"hey! I'm actually not a college student, I'm 30, live in uptown, and don't know anyone here really, come with me in a cab to my condo 12 miles away".

Any ideas of ways I can break in without seeming like the creepy old guy? It is clear I have no luck with women my age and I need to go after women 8-10 years younger (I know what a TERRIBLE problem to have... ;) )