Ma femme aimerait que mes deux oreilles soient percées de diamants. I am a 48 year old man, architect, with a classic style: every day, I wear shirt, blazer, pleated pants, tassel loafers.

For my birthday, which is coming up soon, my wife (36) wants to offer me diamonds because she would love it if both of my ears were pierced with real diamonds set in yellow gold (identical to those worn by women). She finds it very beautiful and very sexy, and she is very sexually excited by the fact that everyone will see me like this from now on, including my work colleagues and my clients at the architecture firm. Is she fetichist ?

She has already inquired about purchasing the diamonds and having them pierced directly in my ears. I really want to do it and please my wife, the fact that she is very sexually excited by it makes me want it, but I admit that I'm a little apprehensive... I wonder how a man with a classic style, like me, will be perceived when both my ears have been pierced with real women's diamonds. Also, we have two daughters and my wife and I are both Christians and very involved in the life of our parish and church, and I wonder how it will be perceived by the parishioners. Thank you for your opinions.