New here, which you could probably guess by my question.

It seems to me that the majority of the advice here, if followed, does not allow for the modern construct of love. For example, I wouldn't tell the person I love my true feelings, my secrets, my insecurities. I wouldn't demonstrate my concern if they didn't text me back, although concern is what I am feeling. It appears by following TRP you can never be completely accepted and loved for who you truly are...

This was an easier question to ask in my head...If you could just point me in the direction of TRP literature on love that would be great, feel like I might be way off here. Thanks!

EDIT: Thanks for the replies, very interesting!