We always hear that "misogyny kills, misandry just hurts feelings" and that "misandry is just online hate, misogyny is institutional" from a lot of people, even from other MEN.

Let's look at the definition of misandry, it is "hatred, mistrust or prejudice against men and boys." That's it.

Institutional misandry also exists, but it is always dismissed as something else. Look at that image from the Wikipedia article of misandry, which dismisses it. I'd also like to add men's mental health and su!cides.

They say it's the patriarchy. That we brought it on ourselves. That it's the toxic masculinity.

Okay, even then, so what? Patriarchy and misandry are not mutually exclusive.