tl;dr : I've been swallowing the pill since over a year. Made outstanding progress in every aspect off my life, keep working on it, and plan to kick even more of them. Arrived in a new city / country / continent (US) one month ago. Been laid only once while drunk. Get no results out of online game, have trouble progressing in day game. Getting frustrated (not only about sex), seem to be missing something. What do ?

Hello guys, long time no see. Have started swallowing the pill over a year ago. Classic story : break up, looking for answers, eyes opening, working on self a lot... It has been a great year.

I have a new, interesting job, not far away from the 6 figure salary, that seems to meet my ambition on a 2 year period. I dress well, better than 90% of people I cross. My fashion sense has become good enough that people ask me for advice in fashion, and talk about me as "that guys that dresses so well all the time". I've been lifting for over a year, now, and the results are definitely there. I'm on my second bulk, taking it very seriously, and hardly can wait for next year's results. I've had plenty of plates, have had more girl in my bed this past year than in my entire previous life. Still have one waiting for me back home as I'm halfway across the world.

I had started day game and cold approaching back home. It seemed like a more suitable way for me to land prospects as I'm generally busy and my experience tells me you land better chicks in real life than online (less crazy ones, too). Although the results weren't amazing, I did a couple of approaches that went quite well. Landed a few numbers before taking off, but I wanted to work on my day game even if there was no results.

Recently, I moved to a new city in the US (new continent for me), as part of my new job. It was something I asked, and am more than happy to discover your american ways. I expected things to be easy. Online game, particularly. I was told easy lays were everywhere. My success back home got me fairly confident I'd soon enough have 2 or 3 plates spinning allowing me to focus on other subjects. As I arrived, I started my routine. Got Tinder & OkC installed. Set up my profile with pictures I made during the summer. It started great, having a very big amount of replies and matches (10 a day on Tinder at some point). Yet, I somehow could not manage to land a date. I suppose I let my text game rest for too long, and the apps got me more frustrated than anything. And I was not closing.

I got bored of it and just got rid of the apps. I'd rather keep working on day game than waste my time and get frustrated on these. And off I went. I approached a couple of time, did some progress, even got a couple of number, mostly from 6s that I didn't even call back. I ended up not saving the number of one of the only girl that was actually interesting. Ended up fucking some 6,5 harley quinn on halloween while being totally drunk. Only lay in america. Been there 1 month. Yay.

I started to take dancing classes. Hit up directly with two of the girls that were there. Both gave great IoI. Got the first on a date, kclosed. A second one, things got a little hotter but she had work. Have been playing the waiting game with her over thanksgiving, just gave her the opportunity to reach out to me again this week. The other one seems a more slower prospect if any, I haven't got any infos about the whole situation to set my mind yet.

Any way, here I am, it's monday evening, and I'm getting frustrated. I'm turning around in a cage. I keep working on my lifts, my style and my job, and am playing on two girls and have no idea where that is going. I end up cold approaching no more than once or twice a week, get polite answers, but end up getting nothing. I don't play the number game, although I should, because my mindset is fucked and I can't manage to switch the game button on on my way to work/home. I've got no friends in that city yet because of focusing on chicks so much, the only guys I see are from the office, and social events with guys from the office is work to me, not play time. Guess it's part of it all.

Acknowledging your feelings is the best way to understand them and to manage them. Meditation helps doing that. I try to meditate every day. Yet tonight, I'm just fucking frustrated. I feel like I've been making no progress anywhere. I've been fapping like a fucking teenager since 3 weeks, venting out the frustration, but it doesn't seem to do the trick any more. It's not only about sex, I just feel like i'm missing something in general.

So here am I. Venting it all out. Give me your best, give me your worst, ask whatever question needed. Put light on what I forget, on what I need to focus on, on what I could do. I don't really care about getting laid, tbh. Frustration aren't always cured by giving away what the frustration is about. I just feel there's something missing and can't get my finger on it.

Thanks for your time.