I have a number of girls in my life, who I could spin as 'plates,' but don't, because I am not into girls below my SMV. Meanwhile, I have one girl in my life who I actually like, who is at or above my SMV. My question is how do I avoid the negative consequences of being beta, if I am not spinning a lot of plates, even though I could? Is the factor of being able to, at any time, a positive facet if I'm not actually doing it?

I just don't feel like being slutty, or getting off with some random 6-7/10, I want quality not quantity. I generally go after the woman's looks and mind at the same time, that's what I'm in it for. I am attracted to the way a woman makes me feel and not her as a body. I'm confused in this, because I don't really feel like many from TRP feel similarly, or at least don't seem to. Maybe I'm reading everything wrong.

So what do I do? Should I take another job so I can meet more quality women? Do I start lowering my standards? How do I properly balance quality with abundance?