There is this one girl I've been on one date with. I got very obvious IOI from her during (she joked that if her sister weren't at her place she would invite me over to give her a massage) and post date (she called me after a I got back from a trip saying she really wanted to see me) but she can be very unresponsive over text and has flaked on a couple of attempts at setting up date two. At this point I'm just planning on nexting her because I feel like I'm wasting my time. She responded positively once before when I chided her for her unresponsiveness. So I'm wondering if it's better to just cut all contact or explain that my time is too valuable to waste attempting and failing to set up dates with her.

I normally wouldn't put this much thought into it, but our last failed date attempt was basically going to be a Netflix and chill that she proposed but had to back out of due to a previously scheduled family obligation she forgot about (there was a specific believable excuse and attempted reschedule that I couldn't make). So it feels like the lay is just tantalizingly close if she weren't so damn bad with scheduling conflicts.

So thoughts on whether on whether a final chiding text is a good idea.