How to not get the lil bro treatment without changing who you are.

JackSquirts · 2026-02-10T05:52:03+00:00

You didn't turn her on so she looked at you like a friend or brother. The key to avoiding this is to flirt. Flirting demonstrates attraction, but more importantly, builds attraction. It's not guaranteed, but it's the most effective and efficient pathway from being a guy, to the guy.

Broad-Cranberry-9050 · 2026-02-10T18:19:08+00:00

As someone who struggled and got better.

I will say this, i have found when people get bro treatment it's usually because they are trying too hard to not be something over just being themselves. Just from the small post, sounds like you are a nice guy. THat's ok, but the problem comes that you are trying too hard to not be an AH where you are coming off too nice. Maybe even protective. I had similar issues. Im genuinly a nice guy, but i put that on overdrive when i met girls, didnt make it clear that i was also someone they could fuck.

It was like i was trying to prove i was hubby material over just showing them that they could have a fun time with me and im someone they could fuck.

It's a hard line because you cant' make it too obvious you are into them but you can't make it seem like you would never do it in a million years.

What i found is that i go into conversation with women the same way as i would a guy i just met. I dont care who you are, i will be myself and have fun for myself. And if you dont like me than that's your loss. I dont have to be liked by everybody. I go out for my own enjoyment, i dont try to disrespect, i just have a fun time and she can join in or not.

So for me im funny and witty, so i started being funny and witty with women. One time i called someone a nepo baby and ended up having a flirty back and forth.

That's the important thing, can you have a flirty back and forth with a woman. That keeps the conversation going longer, and you are scrambling to start a new one. Keeping it too nice and brotherly, you are scrambling to keep conversations going.

artsyaika · 2026-02-10T08:50:47+00:00

Good therapy won’t erase you, it helps you suffer less.

Title	How to not get the lil bro treatment without changing who you are.
Author	decal1210
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	February 10, 2026 5:45 AM UTC (5 months ago)
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