Currently relationship of two years is doomed and I want out.

Boundaries have been broken and lying straight to my face. I feel disappointed, angry and hurt. I just want to yell at her because of her wrongdoing and my brain keeps thinking of ways to get revenge and shame her. However, after a lot of reading the last many months the RP part is trying to keep me calm and knows that life is not fair, and the best option is to live a happy life.

She has two kids from previous marriage, which I love, and I know they like me a lot. I cannot help to think how they are going to handle it, but meanwhile, I keep thinking it is not my responsibility.

My plan is a follows:

  • Keep calm and tell her I want this to end. She knows the reason why and I do not have to do any further explanation or DEER.
  • Tell her I have no interest in being friends afterwards.
  • As we are living together, find a temporary place to live and get friends and family to help move my stuff. If possible this weekend.
  • After my things are moved, stay no contact and just vanish.

Is it a total dick move to just move out, and do you have any other last tips or pointers?