(Posting for a friend)

A friend of mine has been talking with me about her relationship with a guy she recently dates. I’m a bit perplexed and want to ask for other’s opinions/perspectives/advice.

She met this guy on a dating app. Career driven and accomplished, similar interests, takes the lead and good planner, family oriented. He ended his previous marriage with his wife on good terms and they are coparenting. He is physically fit except he unfortunately is recovering from cancer surgery. What are your thoughts on dating a man who could be sick?

He’s pretty open with her about his intentions, family situation, and personal matters such as his ambitions in life. From what she tells me, they seem to have nice chemistry and have similar goals of building life and a family. However, I’m concerned since they did have sensual touching and oral sex on the second date (she’s a PIV virgin until marriage). Not to be judgemental, but I’m not sure if she’s in a good spot and don’t know what she should do from here. I told her to keep options open and date others. But don’t know how to help her gauge her progress with this guy.

What are some advice would you think I should tell her? I appreciate any guidance and would provide any clarity if needed. Tia.