why do men find it sad when the "redpill-realisation" occur? as a woman who did watch a lot of redpill-content on YouTube and ruble in some years, it made me really sad, because I felt bad for having female nature, and I did get the impression that men didn't actually love women that emotionally, and that their love was more physical and logical, rather than social and emotional, and that for me, made love from men seem more fake, and that I'm made for being a slave to nature.

but I wonder, why is this sad for men? is it because the idea of a woman in their minds gets broken, and that she actually is more like a instinctive animal kinda(according to some redpillers, not my words), or is it only that fakt that it can be harder to meet her standards? and than they get less sex? is the melancholy actually this stupid,or is it something I don't understand?

I am genuinely asking, am not trying to come of as offensive, I actually think I'm wrong, that's why I'm asking now

what is the sad "reality" for the redpill-men, and why?