So I (M21) add a lot of people on Instagram, both guys and girls just for the simple fact that I wanna make friends sometimes too, but I’ve been trying to figure out recently how my friends seem to have luck with getting dates/hook ups

I’m really good at holding conversations with girls and can vibe/talk about common interest and stuff but to be honest I’ve never really gotten past that

That’s legit how my friend and his girl (who is also my friend) got together, they share a common hobby, and one day one of them DM the other (since they were just acquaintances at the time) and then that led to them hanging out, which went to hooking up and becoming a couple