Modern Women Are BEGGING Men to Start Dating Again

AmbitiousStartups · 2026-04-14T19:50:55+00:00

They are begging for the top one percent of men to start caring.

Wife_and_Mama · 2026-04-15T13:33:14+00:00

I think this is pretty accurate. My husband and I met online in 2015, during sort of an unrealized golden age of online dating. Only when we were getting married did we really start to see the shift. That's when the term "Netflix and chill" came about, when Tinder took off. That's also when women starting using the apps more for affirmation and when you saw toxic femininity really get a push from subs like r/femaledatingstrategy. It's no surprise the whole thing turned into what it is today, just a digital version of the actual dating world. That's what it is, though. Women have always complained that men don't call or aren't interested in commitment. Millennials and Gen Z just gave these issues cutesy names.

The real problem, in my opinion, isn't the format for dating, but that both generations were raised by fiction. They think Friends is a real life representation of the 90s, when in reality, when it aired, we all used to joke that these people had endless free time and turned 30 three years in a row. Millennials made fanfic a mainstream hobby and became adults when streaming and social media became the norm, while Gen Z grew up with it all. Instead of basing our relationship expectations on our parents, aunts and uncles, and close friends, we base it on TV dramas and that girl from high school who seems to always be on some lavish vacation with her rich husband. We have no basis in reality. Add in online dating and women think they can mold a man from clay, instead of recognizing what's actually out there. Just look at the number of posts about finding a millionaire that are on the main sub. We don't know what's real anymore.

CardiologistTop7675 · 2026-04-17T09:12:20+00:00

Nah its the other way around, obviously

kroshkamoya · 2026-04-17T16:59:20+00:00

Yes, feminism has done on a number on relationships and commitment. But it's not just unrealistic expectations. It's simply men and women not wanting anything serious.

After my long term relationship breakup, I spent close to 5 years on and off trying to find a boyfriend.

I'm not fat, I'm not ugly, I don't have bad vices, I'm in a high earning white collar profession. And let me tell you. I've met plenty of men who simply wanted a fun time without commitment. There are good men out there and they do complain about women not wanting commitment.

The men I went on dated with - many single for many years, many bouncing from one woman to the next, others weirdos, and other men straight up saying, listen, I can get regular sex without commitment, so why commit to one woman?

After 5 years, I gave up. I went back to my ex boyfriend. Who also happened to have a very difficult time finding a suitable girlfriend.

Soulful_Sadist · 2026-04-16T00:55:11+00:00

It's been a while since I've seen this subreddit pop up in My feed.

While not necessarily specifically related to this individual post... I just want to express a word of appreciation and gratitude that... IN THE TORRENTIAL FLOOD of anti-Male, pro-feminist, pro-misandrist subreddits all throughout this platform... that this space exists.

Without hyperbole, you ladies are doing God's work. Keep it up. 🌺

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However, yes, in response to this specific post and its associated video... while I tend to agree with her take and appreciate the work she puts in... probably the one area of push-back I'll give is this notion of "MODERN" feminism... as if feminism hasn't be a cancerous scourge on western civilization since (if not before) its very inception. Not to throw fault specifically at her in the video. I just keep seeing this almost literally everywhere. It's a misconception that NEEDS to be re-educated OUT of everybody's mind.

The way I sometimes talk about the various so-named "waves" (which aren't a thing)... is it's been the same pig all along just covered in slightly different batches of slop.

RECAP: From its beginning, and still today, boiled down here are the three core tenets of the feminist dogma:

(A) destruction of the nuclear family unit,
(B) destruction of Men and masculinity, and
(C) destruction of God and/or religion overall.

I could easily unfurl each of those three points like taking apart a never-ending nesting doll. However to keep this comment post from being any longer than can be helped, I'll keep it contained to those three points.

Each point is effectively an umbrella for ALL the various evils associated. Anyone who has done any significant level of research into the history of feminism and that from whence it came (Marxism)... then you have a pretty good ideal about all the things attached to the above three points.

Every feminist narrative about "rights" and "opportunity", etc., were only ever the more socially palatable window dressing that helped get more people on board. Not to mention that all the tired, perpetual feminist narratives about "oppression" are myth, and provably so.

Similarly, and easily more important, every feminist narrative regarding Patriarchy (yes, I said it)... that, too, has always been false, inverted, and backwards. Patriarchy is a good thing, and necessary for a society to function well and remain strong and secure.

For the uninitiated, just suffice it to say everything you've ever been taught (via school or society) about feminism AND Patriarchy... are and have always been lies... by design, purposely deceptive lies.

All the while, the ultimate aim has always quite literally been the deconstruction and, indeed, destruction of society as a whole... to (figuratively if not literally) burn it all to the ground to then rebuild some mythical utopia that can't ever be possible if people with free will are involved.

Essentially, with 0% hyperbole... feminism = socialism = communism = death and destruction.

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Title	Modern Women Are BEGGING Men to Start Dating Again
Author	ChanceFortune6094
Upvotes	12
Comments	7
Date	April 13, 2026 11:12 PM UTC (3 months ago)
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