All hate is wrong but it's interesting how differently society reacts to hateful women vs hateful men

ljfrench · 2026-04-14T08:42:30+00:00

My wife and I applied to the same coding school, 42. She talked to them about her learning disability, and her accomodations were granted instantly with no questions.

Me? Instantly denied, no questions, no follow-up, just a lecture about how they can't accommodate everyone.

They didn't know we were married, so I called them out on it. They just shut down and stonewalled and denied everything. And later they announced that now everyone gets the disability accomodation, so problem solved.

We of course left the school and posted articles and reviews. But two years later they still haven't acknowledged or apologized that they treated me different because I'm man.

Edit: I almost forgot, the same school, 42 Luxembourg, held a "women in tech" day. Started ten minutes early with only the women, the admins then went and got the men, who are on time but now ten minutes late, and guess what, no chairs for the men. I shit you not, I would testify to this. I could not believe it. I had hurt my back and I couldn't sit in a chair. They didn't see any issues when politely confronted.

chinkznigo · 2026-04-14T15:58:08+00:00

It’s plain to the common man that there are more hateful women on/off line than men.

SidewaysGiraffe · 2026-04-14T13:36:49+00:00

You don't need to wonder-just look around here. There's no shortage of guys who've let their anger calcify into hate.

Starman164 · 2026-04-14T14:21:15+00:00

Not good things, generally.

For some, it can lead to a feeling of hopelessness--depression. I'm sure I don't need to explain where that road leads.

For others, it can drive them to hatred. Injustice like that builds resentment over time, and drives its victims to adopt more and more extremist views. If it goes on long enough, the sheer resentment can drive cultural pendulum swings that can lead to things like women's right to vote being contested--an idea that does nothing to uplift men, but knocks women down out of spite.

...But for yet others, it can light a fire in them to try and be the best they can be--to prove the hate towards their demographic wrong, and to change culture for the better, fixing the injustice outright. The Civil Rights movement comes to mind.

MeanInterview7893 · 2026-04-14T16:28:33+00:00

World has forgotten how to treat man in the name of feminism and equal rights

Title	All hate is wrong but it's interesting how differently society reacts to hateful women vs hateful men
Author	TrainingGap2103
Upvotes	147
Comments	6
Date	April 14, 2026 8:26 AM UTC (4 months ago)
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