I'm a college student and I regularly lift/party/etc. During my last week before coming home for winter break, I went home with a girl who happened to have a lot of mutual friends with me. We hooked up but I didn't cum because I was too drunk; I got her off w/ fingering though. Turns out she lives near where I do back home, so I thought this would be an excellent plate opportunity away from college.

Fast forward a week - I finished finals and went home. We texted a bit and I asked her to hang out. She declined - nbd. I only have a couple plates in my hometown so I called one over. I seriously could not get it up because I was thinking about the other chick. Since then, I've had decreased appetite, less consistent sleep, and slightly worse performance at the gym. This shit has never happened to me before and it's starting to freak me out.

Logically, this girl is not even close to LTR material. She's a 7 (worse than other plates), a couple years older, and far too promiscuous. I have no contact w/ her now and I try to dispel thoughts of her whenever they enter my mind. I need some advice to restore my mental state from before meeting her so I can get back to improving myself and having a good time with other girls. I'm busy socializing with mates and other activities but I can't fully detach my mind from her. Please ask if you need anymore information on the situation.