I started writing this after I had a debate with my mother, she lost and started calling me names and stuff because exposed flaw in her logic and showed that she harbored misandrist views.

She reacted with threats and hit me with a rolling pin.(I'm fine it was my left leg, a little bruised but nothing much)

What I really want to say is that the mens right movement needs more magic and more fluff to it.

What we want is that it should be more vibrant,more stardusty and have more culture and weight to it.

I want it ideally to focus down to the individual and also have intergalactic levels of reach(aim for the stars).

I want it to capture the human imagination and spirit the way feminism did but even better, it can't just be about the complaints of how men are treated,logical debate, we want it to have a soul, an essence to it.

Being a man should have a new meaning wrapped in a narrative that people want to belong to, an awe-inspiring take wrapped in stardust,magic and mystery, we want to have cultural weight, we want to make a dent in how people perceive men, a dent so elegant people will think it's natural.

We want ours to be an even better cultural movement.

Feminism did not spread because of just legal arguments; instead it created a powerful,romantic narrative of liberation, it created mythos of liberation,sisterhood and reclaiming stolen power-its own stardust.

The problem with most existing mens groups is that their still stuck in a boring, reactionary, jargon-filled, defensive loop.

They focus extensively on statistics,court cases and pointing out double standards

What we want is for our movement to hit on the individual level, oppressed or not you can feel it within your soul.

We need a new more positive mythos.

We want a visionary path for male excellence, spiritual sovereignty,brotherhood(not ur typical bro/bro type that's kinda cringe tbh) and creative-intellectual power filled path;

It needs to harness art, media ,aesthetics and all other kinds of viral media

We will need novelist, writers, directors/filmmakers, actors etc.

We want to spread through music,art,fashion,literature and embed itself into Hollywood and pop culture making it the default aesthetics of modern life.

We want them to make us beautiful and culturally irresistible.

While we aim high we must also aim "low" so that even the uneducated can understand our vision.

The problem with mainstream feminism is that it becomes hypocritical and dogmatic when challenged which is negative or positive depending on how we use it.

We want is to define the "Enemy" and the ultimate "Promise", the future that should've been but was stolen from us.

We need to paint an undeniable and highly attractive picture of what the world will look like if we have our autonomy.

People won't listen to our complaints but they'll surely rally around a vision of freedom.

We want our own visual aesthetic, appeal and lexicon to keep it alive.

We want neither to be women nor the traditional old male who was dehumanized but instead a newer, better version of what so eone can be.

We don't want passive consumers instead we need active zealots.

To do those well need to

Show, Don't Tell;

Establish The Point Of No Return;

Establish The Narrative Of Decay;

We need to make it undeniable that playing by old rules will get us stuck in the mud.