I don’t know where else to post this other than here. I can’t say I entirely subscribe to red pill content because this seems kind of adjacent to my issue

But I spent a year away from dating in order to build my career and get back in shape and so on. But another reason was because I found out about groups like Are We dating the Same Guy and the Tea app. I don’t have a reason to think I would be posted one there but the idea that I could effectively be doxxed to the entire internet and my reputation dragged by a bunch of bitter women making shit up for entertainment is entirely fucked!

And before anyone says “just don’t be a PoS”
I’ve seen enough screenshots of women laughing about lying on there, taking creep shots of men in public, their dating profiles and so on.
Putting myself out there feels like a massive risk now thinking I could go into work the next day and lose my career because some unhinged woman was bored and decided to lie on me and someone from HR saw it.

I don’t know what to do!